Wednesday, October 19, 2016

Oct 19 2016 : Two weeks post Surgery and back home for a week!

Sorry not have posted sooner but it has just gotten away in the blur of the last few weeks. We have been back and forth to Seattle many times beginning with the first week in August. This was all started by the serious decline in Emily's lung function. The basic goal has been to stop any more decline, stabilize and then hope for improvement. No guarantees that any of those things were possible. There have been many procedures for diagnostic reasons. results from the testing indicated that two surgeries would hopefully be helpful. On August 30th was the first a sinus surgery. This had an unexpected long and painful recovery but seems to have helped with the post nasal drip and Emily can breathe through her nose for the first time in years. Tougher than expected but good result.
We were back in Eugene for a week or so then back to Seattle for visits at the Post Transplant Clinic and a post surgery visit. These trips have become epic . There is in the background the profound fatigue and nausea/pain combined with totally unpredictable traffic. We have become adept at keeping the O2 going  as Peg switches the valve  in the back seat where she has a tiny space among O2 tanks and other medical supplies. Our regular stops are a couple of Burgervilles where they have clean bathrooms that are wheelchair accessible. There are also really excellent fresh berry milkshakes but that is not why we stop there.

After a week back in Eugene from the post sinus surgery check up we planned to head back to Seattle for a quick three day trip to meet the surgeon for the next surgery, the Nissen Fundoplication. This is the stomach surgery to stop or limit acid reflux. The reflux can cause major lung problems. Well  best made plans. The three day trip turned into three weeks with fifteen days of that in the hospital at UWMC. (We have looked at the calendar and realized that we have not spent more than ten days in a row in Eugene since early August) This time in the hospital involved more testing to evaluate for the stomach surgery and an attempt to stabilize and gain some strength in anticipation of the surgery. It was notable the number of medical folks of the highest level that were watching over Emily as this surgery approached. Not until the day before was final go ahead made. Her surgeon is head of of general surgery at UWMC and was very attentive before and after. His team was constantly present in the hours and days post surgery. The post surgery stay was three full days rather than the normal one. We remained in Seattle an additional three days to be close to UWMC and rest before driving back home a week ago this past Monday.


We can not over state how good to is to be back home under our own roof and in our own bed with dear old Gus, our 12 year old golden staying as close to Emily as he can get. Medically, Emily still is on O2 all the time. She has been able to walk on her own to the living room. Small but big steps. Because of the surgery diet is limited to really soft foods for a month. That southern favorite Grits and Eggs all smashed together, and know as Goop, is most popular. Pain is much better but nausea still rears up pretty often. The recovery from this surgery is pretty long and the true evaluation of just how well it works is probably six months out. There has been a pretty serious rearranging of the anatomy. At this point though it seems to have helped a lot with the acid reflux. Lung health : it will also be a long time in  evaluating just what the new normal is. But a very good first step is the in house walks and being able to converse without going into distress.

We all want to make a few special thanks. As always our dear friend Nicky has been there for us. Taking care of Gus for a few days,  picking up Rx,  helping get Emily into the house and just being part of the foundation of our lives. Our good neighbor Joanie has watched over the house and is a good friend to Gus. When three days turned into to three weeks she not only watched over things but had the backyard looking perfect which was a sweet greeting home. Bobby picked up very important O2 supplies and mowed the grass at a rental. Our friend Bruce in Seattle appears magically to help out as needed. As does Mike to raise spirits and carry Emily down the stairs, princess style, so we could head home. I know I missed folks but thanks to all. This recovery is going to be a long journey. Please keep in touch via comments here and on FB with Emily.

Emily has been receiving a lot of cards, letters and packages via mail. UPS, etc. They have come to our house in Eugene, The Collegiana in Seattle (this is the excellent place we stay that belongs to UWMC and is for folks with family being treated) and a few things arrived at the hospital. These are great. I can not over state how much they mean. They often bring a bit of light and laughter to some long days. We are back home but the day to day health issues remain at a most serious level. These personal contacts mean so very much. Thanks and keep em coming. Take care. KM

4 comments:

  1. Hang in there Emily. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. Mary Lyda

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  2. Thanks for the updates, Keith. Em - it sounds as though your strength and toughness are pulling you through. Keep up the good work. We are rooting for you.
    Being non-Facebookers, we rely on Adrienne to fill us in between posts here. She too is keeping close tabs and will be here at Christmas time and can check in in person.
    Sally's off in Boston racing tomorrow, but sends her best as well.
    Warm wishes,
    Kip et al.

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  3. Emily and family: sometimes being busy isn't a good enough reason to avoid staying in touch. I have been busy but regaining control. Being an optimist, I am so happy that things seem to have turned the corner for you. Knowing your persistent spirit and supportive parents, I can only know that prayers will come true. Keep up keeping up. Love you. Mike

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  4. Greetings Monforts!
    It was so good to see Keith the other night at the ski swap. (Too bad we didn't find the xc skis... that Adrienne "needs"!) And good to hear in person a bit about how things are going at home. Sounds like you all make a pretty good team - and need it too! I am sorry we haven't been able to check in with you two Lady Monforts (does that have a regal ring to it?) - but eventually we will.
    This weekend we will try our luck racing on the Montlake cut you all have come to know well. Sally enjoys the challenge of avoiding multiple-boat crashes and I just like to make it through. It's usually miserable weather and lots of fun. We will also get brunch with niece Tilden, who now lives up there.
    Best of luck and good wishes for a healthy November! Cheers,
    Kip et al.

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